MAFS’ Brent Vitiello reveals ‘X-rated’ secrets from the show

MAFS star Brent Vitiello had quite a turbulent relationship with his on-screen 'wife' Tamara Djordjevic during their time on the show, with Brent eventually walking away from the relationship at the final vows.

Now that the show is over, the reality TV star isn’t holding back and has revealed some X-rated secrets about his past relationship with Tamara.

Brent Vitiello pictured wearing a checkered suit, beside Tamara djordjevic wearing a leopard print dress, on the set of MAFS
Brent Vitiello and Tamara Djordjevic had a tumultuous relationship on MAFS. Photo: Nine

Brent’s steamy X-rated confession

Speaking on the Good B*tch Podcast, Brent was quick to clarify that there wasn’t any pressure from producers to have sex - although they did keep the room well stocked with condoms.

He reveals that it took a while for him and Tamara to take that step, so instead, he took ‘long showers’.

“It was hard to read her and I guess I just wasn’t sure when it would be okay,” he explains.

Tamara Djordjevic posing in a skimpy bikini, looking at the camera.
Brent spilled some racy secrets about his time in the bedroom with Tamara. Photo: Instagram/tamara__djordjevic__/

"So it kind of got to a point where she was like, ‘Well why are you taking so long in the shower?’, I was like, ‘Well, I was you know, doing my thing as a man.’ And she goes, ‘Well, Why would you do that? You’ve got me here,’ and I was like, ‘Wait what? I didn't know that was an option.’"

"And that was the only way I even knew because reading her was difficult," he says.

Brent admits that while sex did have a positive impact on their relationship, it wasn't a big part of their time together.

"After it we were kind of laughing and getting along so it looked like [the relationship] was going to a better level after that," he says.

"It didn’t happen too many times after but yeah, like, it did [change the relationship]."


Brent Vitiello wearing a white jumper, kissing Tamara in a white outfit.
Brent discussed what it was like to be intimate on the show. Photo: Nine

How Brent really feels about Tamara

Throughout the show, Tamara wouldn’t stop taking jabs at Brent’s occupation as a restaurant manager. During the Girls’ Night, she mentioned to the ladies that she thinks Brent ‘waits tables’ for a living.

When fellow star Domenica Calarco repeated this to Brent, he threw his wedding ring away and stormed off. Reliving that moment with the Good B*tch Podcast hosts, he elaborated on why he reacted the way he did.

Brent Vitiello wears a white collared shirt as he looks unhappy listening to Tamara Djordjevic. Tamara is wearing a body-con yellow dress.
Brent wished Tamara "good riddance" at the Final Vows ceremony. Photo: Nine

“You can’t prepare for someone to say the certain things that my wife did,” he started. “It doesn’t matter what you do. You’re supposed to judge someone from the person they are, not what they do.

Even if you have bigger dreams than that specific job – I’m sure we all may have bigger dreams, I do – doesn’t mean you treat someone differently for it.”

He went on to explain that he was upset not only for himself, but also for anybody else watching in the same situation as him.

“To completely judge someone or write them off for not being in that [corporate] world is really limiting yourself,” he added.

Brent Vitiello gives a speech to Tamara Djordjevic at the Final Vows ceremony. He wears a black suit, she wears a white two piece outfit with her hair tied up.
Brent tore Tamara apart at the Final Vows ceremony, calling her “vindictive, spiteful and self-absorbed”. Photo: Nine

Ella a better match for Brent

Brent says he went on the show with the best intentions and was looking for a relationship where he could be at peace and laugh all the time.

That obviously wasn't what he found with Tamara, but perhaps he could have found it with fellow MAFS star Ella Ding, had the experts matched them together instead.

"Look, [Ella and I have] spoken about it," he says, "There is an attraction, yes, and there is great chemistry. If we were matched, I think we’d probably still be together."

Brent was quick however, to dismiss rumours the pair are dating, saying that they are friends first and confirming they’re not diving headfirst into a romantic relationship at this stage.

A screenshot of a photo posted in the Married At First Sight Australian Fans Facebook group, the picture shows Brent in a grey jumper and black pants posing next to Ella Ding, wearing a tight white dress with a very high thigh split.
Brent and Ella were seen celebrating Ella's birthday together. Photo: Facebook/Married at First Sight Australian Fans

The pair may also be reluctant to begin a relationship due to future plans, with an insider recently telling Yahoo Lifestyle, "Brent is planning on spending some time in America soon and exploring possible work opportunities there."

“Now their season [of MAFS] is airing in the States, he's slowly gaining an American following and has connections in LA and NYC he is planning on meeting with,” they said, “He is also planning on doing a tour across the UK with Al [Perkins] as the pair have started receiving offers for club appearances.”

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