Did Bruno Mars and His Longtime Girlfriend Jessica Caban Break-Up?
Bruno Mars is certainly a romantic man. With ballads like "Versace on the Floor," “Leave the Door Open,” and most recently, the raunchy “Fat Juicy & Wet," he's repeatedly sung about his love life. Though Bruno Mars croons, in great detail, about his romantic life, the genre-bending artist, who has reigned in pop culture since the 2010s, is actually quite private about his in-real-life relationship.
Mars burst onto the music scene with his inaugural Doo-Wops & Hooligans, the Atlantic Records album that catapulted him to the top of the charts. The album, which includes hits like "Just the Way You Are," "Grenade" and "Marry You" earned him several Grammys, and through it all he's been dating model and actress Jessica Caban. But who is Caban?
Read on for everything we know about Mars' longtime girlfriend and muse.
Who is Bruno Mars dating?
As far as we know, Bruno Mars is still dating Jessica Caban, whom he started dating in 2011. But lately, there are some rumors that the two have broken up and have yet to make the announcement official (more on that below).
What does Bruno Mars' girlfriend Jessica Caban do for work?
Caban credits the one and only Jennifer Lopez with launching her modeling career, as she worked for her since-shuttered Sweetface brand back in the aughts.
Caban reminisced on the moment in a throwback tweet posted in 2012, which featured an old newspaper clipping of herself modeling Sweetface. "My 1st job modeling was for @JLO***couldn't think of a better way to start my career. Thanks Jennifer! #throwback," she wrote.
In 2008, Caban competed in and won the first season of the reality competition series Model Latina, in which contestants participate in runway and fashion challenges to win a contract with Q Management, a $10,000 cash prize and photo spread in Latina magazine. She later returned to the show as a guest judge.
In addition to Model Latina, Caban made her acting debut in Gina Rodriguez’s Jane the Virgin, where she played Sonia, an employee at The Marbella hotel who befriends Jane across five episodes. In 2017, she tweeted, "Sonia #thankful thank you @CWJaneTheVirgin & @JennieUrman for this opportunity!!" alongside a photo of herself in costume in front of her trailer.
According to a Rolling Stone article from 2016, Caban also designed a swimwear line, J. Marie, though the brand’s Instagram page has been inactive as of 2020.
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How did Bruno Mars meet Jessica Caban?
Per previous reporting, Caban and Mars first met at a New York City hotel restaurant on the Lower East Side and have known each other since before his first album dropped in 2010. She eventually moved from her hometown of Harlem to Los Angeles to be near the singer-songwriter. Mars first confirmed the relationship publicly in a 2013 Rolling Stone article, with the publication noting that he discussed the matter with “extreme reluctance.”
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What is their relationship status?
In the 2016 RS profile, Mars was asked if he was going to tie the knot with Caban, to which the musician replied, laughing: “Jesus! She’s my best friend. My rock. What’s wrong with that? We’re just happy.” He paused, adding, “Until she reads this.”
Though the two have rarely been seen out together in public, they’ve hit the Grammy Awards on three occasions, in 2014, 2016 and 2018; at the latter ceremony, Mars took home six accolades. During his acceptance speech for Record of the Year for 24K Magic, he gave a shoutout: "My lady, Jessica. I love you, baby. Thank you for being my rock and being by my side throughout this whole process."
While both Mars and Caban follow each other on social media, the rumor mill has posited that the couple has split up as of late 2024, as previous anniversary posts have been scrubbed from the latter’s Instagram and a January 2025 comment by Caban has hinted at the relationship’s closure, with her stating she is “cheering from afar” at Mars’ accomplishments. However, neither Mars nor Caban have publicly denied or confirmed the rumors.
Does Bruno Mars have any kids?
No, Mars doesn't have any children with Caban or anyone else. The two share a Rottweiler named Geronimo, as well as a reported $6.5 million mansion though.
Which Bruno Mars songs are about Jessica Caban?
In 2013, the “APT.” singer told Rolling Stone that he wrote “When I Was Your Man” about Caban, when he felt in danger of losing her.
“I’m not answering any questions about this song,” he said at first. “It’s too close to home.”
However, Caban and Mars didn't break up during that time: “It was a happy ending,” the Silk Sonic member said, while adding that the song is difficult to perform. “You’re pouring your guts out, and you record it. And you’re so proud of it. And then when you perform it, you know, you’re bringing up these emotions again. It’s just like bleeding!”
At another point in the article, he stated, quoting the song, “When you find that one, you buy them flowers and you hold their damn hand.” He joked later, switching the lyrics, as their relationship would become long-distance because of his tour at the time: “I should’ve Skyped you, and gave you a tweet.”