I Almost Spit Out My Coffee At How These 20 Single People Are Describing How Dating In 2025 Is Going So Far

I've written about dating — whether it be other people's or my own experience — for years. Whether you are single or happily in a relationship, we can all agree that today's digital dating world is wild. So I figured it would be fun to start this series where I share real-life dating stories ranging from cringe to funny to wholesome — we will feel all the feels here. To kick things off, here are stories of people sharing their 2025 dating woes so far:

Two people hold hands across a table, one wearing a patterned sleeve and the other a watch. Drinks are in the background
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1.And to think we're not even a month into 2025 yet.

Tweet by Rare Phantom: "Dating in 2025 is just hanging out with someone's ex until they go back to them."
@_rarephantom / Via Twitter: @_rarephantom

2.I had to read this conversation twice to fully understand what was going on here, lol.

Text conversation about scheduling a time to talk, with emphasis on having uninterrupted and focused discussions
u/SchizoZomb / Via reddit.com

3. Honestly, you can't get mad at the honesty here.

@MurrayHillGuy1 / Via Twitter: @MurrayHillGuy1

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4.Once a ghoster, always a ghoster.

Text post discussing a negative dating experience with a man who ghosted for 10 months and reappeared, prompting distrust

5.I wish I could like this 10,000 times.

Text exchange about love: "I'll take care of you." "It's rotten work." "Not to me. Not if it's you." Tweet says, "i don’t WANT hinge. i want this"

6.LOL.

Social media post jokingly states: "just exited hinge to google ‘therapists near me’" by DJ Garbage

7.This cannot be what our ancestors imagined for us when it comes to finding love.

Profile bio humorously specifies dating preferences and mentions past Mardi Gras incident. About section lists height, activity level, zodiac sign, and gender
u/whatthefuckmannn / Via reddit.com

8.This couldn't be more true.

Tweet by @thechosenberg: "You either find love in college or reschedule Hinge dates until you die." Written on Jan 17, 2025, with 1.1M views

9.Ah, modern dating at its finest!

Text conversation ending a relationship due to incompatibility, with one person questioning an Instagram story view
u/Standard_Leading6579 / Via reddit.com

10.Whoever says chivalry isn't dead needs to think again.

A dating app conversation showing a match. The message reads, "Oh HELLO ? I’d have your babies." User reacts with an eye-roll emoji
u/whyamiheretho2022 / Via reddit.com

11.I'm cackling!!

Tweet by carl marks: "liking men on hinge is so degrading" with 4,521 views, posted on Jan 20, 2025

12.I low-key giggled at this pick up line. Cheesy? Yes. Funny? Yes.

Text conversation. Someone forgot their Google account password and recovery questions: "Who's the hottest girl you know?" and someone's phone number
u/littlestars1111 / Via reddit.com

13.Enough! We don't want to have your babies!!

Text conversation showing two messages. First: "Hii." Second: "Yep. You're gonna have my babies" with winking and heart-eyes emojis
TurbulentEnergy000 / Via reddit.com

14.Be more original, Chad.

Text conversation about watching a movie, one person asks "Wyd" and the other replies they are watching without the first person
u/laurenlove614 / Via reddit.com

15. A very relatable feeling to say the least.

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16.It's the game-playing that really makes me want to throw my phone out the window.

A woman shares an experience on Bumble: initial interest, connection, and Facetime. He ghosted, resurfaced later, and apologized for ghosting

17.A+ for creativity.

Text conversation with a question about goals, followed by a GIF with a Denny's theme
u/Sufficient_Loan_5576 avataru/Sufficient_Loan_5576 / Via reddit.com

18.Might as well give it a try at this point.

Tweet about avoiding dating app matches by swiping left on everyone to confuse the algorithm

19.Solid karaoke song choice!

A text exchange about karaoke, song preference, and a personal question about favorite positions, with emojis used for expression
u/hakiel15 avataru/hakiel15 / Via reddit.com

20.Whatever works!

Tweet about underutilizing a local record store for dating purposes

How's dating going for you so far this year? Tell me about it in the comments below!