Abbie Chatfield praised for sex act confession: 'No shame’

The Bachelor star Abbie Chatfield is no stranger to talking about X-rated topics, and she has been praised by fans for bringing up a sex act that many struggle with.

Talking to adult actress Charlotte Star on her It’s A Lot podcast, Abbie admitted that she struggles to perform oral sex on women well.

“I am bi right, but I’m really bad at that. So I was thinking of getting a sex worker, just to have sex with her and do it like a learning experience,” she explained.

Photo of Abbie Chatfield in a corset smiling at the camera
Abbie Chatfield has been praised for talking about a common sex struggle. Photo: Instagram/abbiechatfield

The star is currently in an open relationship with boyfriend Konrad Bien-Stephens, and has been honest with fans about how the pair are free to pursue other sexual relationships.

When she asked Charlotte if hiring a sex worker to practice oral sex was a ‘common’ thing, the adult performer answered bluntly.

“I’ve never really heard of that before,” Charlotte said, before the pair burst into raucous laughter.


While Abbie was embarrassed by her admission during the chat, many fans have now reassured her that it definitely is commonplace.

“It’s really, really common actually. One of the places I used to work, we had quite a few bookings for exactly that! No shame in the game babes,” one person commented.

“It is actually pretty common for people to hire sex workers for such things, but I also recommend trying putting ‘wanting to practice’ in an online dating profile on Her! You’ll definitely get some people interested in helping you upskill,” another advised.

L: Photo of Charlotte Star talking into a Listnr podcast microphone. R: Abbie Chatfield with headphones on, speaking into a Listnr podcast microphone
Abbie chatted to adult actress Charlotte Star on her podcast. Photo: Instagram/itsalotpod

“Just so you know, I’ve 110% had many women and men book for this exact reason and straight up say it. It’s more common than people realise, the people booking may just not feel comfortable disclosing that all the time that that’s why, but they still ask for feedback,” added another.

“We take classes and lessons and use Google for most things we want to learn how to do, so why not hire an expert to help out?” a fourth added.

Abbie’s ‘stressful’ sexual escapade

This comes after Abbie revealed the most unusual place she’s ever had sex.

On her Hot Nights with Abbie radio show, The Masked Singer judge recounted the time she tried to have a rendezvous in the ocean.

“It was so stressful - having sex in the ocean,” she told co-host Rohan Edwards.

Her co-host said that it would be hard for anyone to see what she was doing, and it would have just looked like cuddling.

Abbie said that it wasn’t people knowing she was having sex in the ocean that worried her, but something much scarier.

“What if I got a sea urchin up there,” she joked.

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