This Mom's Super Practical Method For Avoiding Afterschool Meltdowns Is Going Viral

When it comes to parenting, people have to do what works best for their family. While some parents may have their kids follow a regimented schedule, others may prefer to let themselves and their children go with the flow. Whatever works!

A young child is crying at a kitchen counter, while an adult in an apron stands behind them. Another child is chopping vegetables nearby
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Content creator and mother of two Paige Boyuk (@paigeboyuk) recently posted a TikTok video of her eating pasta — that now has more than 2 million views — with the text, "Does anyone else eat dinner at 4:25 p.m. because your kids asked for a snack, and if they had a snack, they wouldn’t eat dinner, so you just serve them dinner?"

A woman is eating dinner and the text on the image reads: "Does anyone else eat dinner at 4:25pm because your kids asked for a snack and if they had a snack they wouldn't eat dinner so you just serve them dinner?"
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"This has been an issue since my son was 1 1/2 and in daycare. He would have major meltdowns once home and I noticed it was because he was hungry," Paige told BuzzFeed.

A young girl eats broccoli at a dining table with a plate of food, including bread and rice. A green sippy cup is next to her
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"I’d rather serve the hearty, nutritious dinner, and they can have a snack plate before bed. As we transitioned back to school and daycare this September, this method had been a lifesaver for us," she continued.

Close-up of a person eating spaghetti with the text: "Does anyone else eat dinner at 4:25pm because your kids asked for a snack and if they had a snack they wouldn't eat dinner so you just serve them dinner?"
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Paige's video clearly resonated with many people, as the comment section was filled with almost three thousand opinions of other parents agreeing with Paige's two and seven-year-old eating dinner on the earlier side or having no idea about this early dinner tactic.

This commenter loves the early dinner and late snack approach.

Comment by Kara: "Dinner right after school (4-4:30) and snack later on is the way to go." Dated 7-22 with 10.2K likes
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This mom brought up a great point about the difference in energy when cleaning up after an early dinner versus a dinner later in the evening.

Comment by jenniferphillips8610: "I started doing this for the very same reason when my boys (now 27, 29) were school-age. I also benefited by having energy left to clean up after!"
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Early after-school dinners aren't only for young children.

Comment by Michele with 65 likes and 2 hearts emoji: "Even with my teens. They are famished after school. Early dinner then an evening snack."
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Other commenters mentioned how an early dinner is normal in some parts of Europe.

A user named CherriBOMB comments: "In Sweden it's common to eat dinner and then you have 'kvällsfika', which is like breakfast, but before bed. Is that not the norm in other countries?"
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While an early dinner is foreign to other commenters, like this one.

A comment by user "Luna UwU" stating, "this feels so weird to me because in my country we normally have dinner at around 9-10pm."
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This person shared how their parents handled these sorts of meltdowns.

ConnorG comments, "My parents would just say 'have an apple.'"
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And this commenter had some questions.

Social media post from careeeeeee expressing difficulty fitting a child's meal schedule into busy work evenings
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"I loved the video's response. It was so nice to see that many other parents have [had] that wild meltdown after daycare and school and that they agree that serving dinner right away helps deter those meltdowns," Paige told BuzzFeed.

If you're a parent, do you feed your kids early or later in the day? Share your opinions with me in the comments below!