Denise Richards Reveals Her Oldest Daughters Are 'Not Speaking,' Wonders If 'My Parenting F---ed My Kids' in Show Premiere

Richards' 19 and 20-year-old daughters, Lola and Sami, whom she shares with Charlie Sheen, opened up about their rift in the premiere of their new reality show 'Denise Richards & Her Wild Things'

Bruce Glikas/Getty From left: Lola Sheen, Denise Richards, Sami Sheen

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From left: Lola Sheen, Denise Richards, Sami Sheen

Denise Richards is revealing a surprising rift in her family.

During the series premiere of Denise Richards & Her Wild Things, the actress shared that her oldest daughters Sami and Lola, whom she shares with Charlie Sheen, were not on speaking terms.

During a conversation with former Real Housewives of Beverly Hills star Camille Grammer, Denise, 54, said Lola even skipped their annual family vacation.

“Lola would not come because her and Sami are fighting — they're not speaking at all,” she explained on the March 4 episode. “I don't really know all the details except Sami’s ex-boyfriend, Lola has remained friends with him.”

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In their confessionals, Sami, 20, and Lola, 19, each told their side of the story.

"She always thought in her head that I wanted her boyfriend," Lola said, before Sami predicted that her sister would also claim "that they’ve always been best friends."

“I introduced them!” Lola insisted. “She expected me to just completely drop him as a friend and just leave a hang-out if he was there.”

Still, Sami insisted, “They were talking about me behind my back,” which was “breaking girl code.” She added, “I would never do that to a friend, let alone my sister."

Bronson Farr/Bravo (2) Lola Sheen (left) and Sami Sheen

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Lola Sheen (left) and Sami Sheen

Later in the episode, Denise hosted a family barbecue, hoping to bring her daughters together. "This is the longest they've ever gone through something like this, and I think that they need to just be done with it,” she said ahead of the gathering.

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But Sami wasn't interested. As all three sat down to talk, Sami quipped, “It would only be successful if someone here was capable of holding themselves accountable."

“I think also, if she could just not cuss me out and actually be respectful, that would be nice,” Lola responded, as she called Sami “so rude.”

Sami then snapped, telling her sister: "I wouldn’t to speak to you like this if you weren’t such a bitch, dude. You have disrespected me one too many times.”

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After going back and forth with no resolution, they both walked away. This left Denise questioning her own methods as she admitted, "Do I worry that my parenting has f---ed my kids? Of course I do.”

Michael Kovac/Getty Denise Richards with daughters Sami and Lola Sheen

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Denise Richards with daughters Sami and Lola Sheen

In the next episode, which followed the premiere, the feud continued to worsen. When Lola revealed that she became “a woman of God” after she turned 18, Sami expressed that also played a role in their estrangement.

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“She's not gonna see me the way that I see her without the Lord and her working on her heart,” Lola said of Sami. “She just cannot understand my way of thinking.”

Both admitted that they had “nothing” in common “besides the fact that we're related,” which has led Sami to feel like Lola is “judging me.”

“She thinks I believe in Satan, and it's just, it's kind of a lot,” Sami confessed.

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They later met up for lunch with their cousin, who Denise asked to be a mediator in the situation. As they began to hash things out, tensions rose.

“You chose to take someone in my friend circle, so I don't know what you want me to do,” Lola said, going on to reveal another underlying grudge: “You dated my ex-boyfriend's best friend!”

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“You didn't have a problem with it,” Sami claimed. But Lola disagreed, responding, “I did have a problem with it, and I did tell you, and you didn't care.”

When Sami told her to “chill out,” Lola acknowledged her sister's feelings but held her ground. “I'm genuinely sorry for hanging out with someone who's hurting you. But when you came in my friend group, and you took my friend and dated him for a year, and I wasn't allowed to talk to him, it affected our relationship too. Because you got jealous all the time when he would talk to me when that was our friendship before you even dated," she said.

Bruce Glikas/Getty Lola and Sami Sheen

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Lola and Sami Sheen

Sami then dropped a bomb: “I just wasn't comfortable with you being touchy with him. You guys were very flirty.”

“I would never do that!” Lola declared, seemingly shocked at her sister’s accusations.

“I asked her if she could stop hanging out with my ex, because I thought it was really weird, and she chose him over me,” Sami told cameras before Lola maintained she wasn’t going to stop hanging out with him.

“I'm just gonna say this. I didn't intentionally mean to actually hurt you that bad because I really do love you,” Lola then said, hoping to reach a resolution. “And I know that right now you don't feel that way because you're hurt by me, and I'm genuinely sorry. I don't want to make you feel like you're unworthy because that's not how I am, that's not how God would want me to make someone feel. So I am sorry.”

Sami reciprocated the gesture, telling her sister, "I appreciate you apologizing, and I am sorry for saying things that have hurt your feelings."

After exchanging "I love yous," Lola concluded that they would eventually move on from this. "We both feel the same way, and hopefully, I know, time will heal it,” she said. "I still have hope that my relationship with Sami is gonna get better because she said ‘I love you,’ which she does not say. That is hard for her to say."

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Denise Richards & Her Wild Things airs Tuesdays at 9 p.m. ET/PT on Bravo.

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