Bride's Family Member Demands to be 'Reimbursed' After They Were Uninvited to Wedding Over Rehearsal Dinner Drama

The Reddit user had been having issues with her husband’s brother’s wife, resulting in her sister-in-law’s mother getting involved

A bride has revealed she had to uninvite her sister-in-law’s mother from her wedding while the rehearsal dinner was taking place.

On Thursday, Nov. 14, the user wrote on Reddit that she had been having issues with her husband’s brother’s wife, resulting in her sister-in-law’s mother getting involved.

“My (33F) husband’s (35M) brother’s wife was talking s— about my husband at our rehearsal dinner and saying really inappropriate things,” the woman wrote on the website. “She was causing a lot of drama that night and my friends kept coming up to tell me what was going on.”

She added, “After [my] sister-in-law caused all this drama, her mother had the nerve to come up to ME and tell ME that I need to stop causing all this drama.”

The bride went on to explain that her sister-in-law’s mother asked why “I hate her daughter — which I don’t — and then she looks me up and down, tells me that my outfit is cute, smiles and walks away.”

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The user then recalled seeing the woman, her date and her daughter speaking together before turning around to glare at her.

“That made me realize that was not the vibe I wanted at our wedding,” she continued. “My husband texted his parents explaining what had happened, and they told us we should uninvite both of them and that they’d back us up.”

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The bride added that while they ended up uninviting the mother, they “tried to keep the peace” by keeping their sister-in-law on the invite list.

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However, four days after the bride and groom arrived home from their wedding celebrations, the husband found a message from his sister-in-law’s mother, asking to be reimbursed for the money she spent on the wedding.

The bride said the mother went “off about me and how I’m an a—--- for getting her uninvited from our destination wedding when she was already there. So, am I the a—---?”

Taking to the comment section, many readers took the bride’s side instead of the sister-in-law’s mother.

“The mother of an SIL was lucky to be invited in the 1st place — complaining about the groom, and trying to lecture the bride?!? Yikes & hell no.  Absolutely kick her to the curb,” one person commented.

A second also added, “She wouldn't have wasted her money if she hadn't been acting like a jerk," while a third said, "She deserved getting booted out."