All-female gym sparks outrage after viral TikTok: 'A problem'

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An all-female only gym in Kansas has gone viral on TikTok after a user praised the establishment's commitment to making clients feel safe.

But along with praise, the gym has copped significant backlash largely from male social media users who have pointed out the 'problem' with women's only spaces and even compared it to 'segregation.'

Composite image of a blonde young woman named Heather Huesman and a photo of her wearing gym clothing and entering a gym building
An all-female only gym in Kansas has gone viral on TikTok. Photo: Heather Huesman /Instagram/TikTok.

'Need these everywhere'

In April, US woman Heather Huesman took to TikTok to share a positive review of Blush Fitness, a women's only gym in Kansas.

In her now-viral video, the 23-year-old took viewers through all of the ways the facility caters to making women feel more comfortable, including tinted windows, restricted access for those who don't have a key, and free feminine products.

The gym also gives advance notice to all members whenever male staff members will be in the building.


"The best gym!" Heather declared in her video. "We need these everywhere, we feel so safe and comfortable going to the gym, gonna be my new favourite spot!"

Heather later told Buzzfeed she no longer feels worried that male gym-goers are leering or giving her unwanted attention.

"I definitely feel safer in an all-women's gym. I personally like to wear tight clothing because it is easier to work out in, and I don’t have to worry about men taking photos of me without my permission, or worry about men making me feel uncomfortable while I’m there," she explained.

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The gym, located in the US state of Kansas, is open to female members only. Photo: TikTok/heatherhuesman.

'Feel so much safer'

Heather's TikTok was met with agreement from countless women who have struggled to feel comfortable at co-ed gyms.

"I would feel so much safer using a machine wrong because I'm a beginner," one person commented. "I would feel way less judged and more comfortable to ask for help."

"I wish all places warned us when there will be men in the building," one person said.

"Yes, men. We would love it if you had a male-only gym and we had a female-only gym," someone wrote. No complaints here."

"Until men can learn how to be respectful and not make women feel uncomfortable or unsafe, spaces like this are 100% necessary," commented another.

'This is sexism'

While many confidently praised the idea of a women's only fitness centre, the video ultimately sparked a debate about whether or not it's discriminatory toward men.

"This doesn't sound like equality," someone wrote. "I swear we're going backwards in time."

"Didn't we end segregation 60 years ago?" echoed another. 

"But if it was a men's only gym it'd be a problem right?" wrote a third.

The negative reaction from some male viewers prompted women to remind men why women feel as though they need a safe space in the first place. 

"It's actually so sad that men don't understand why we need this," one user wrote. "Which explains why we need it even more, honestly."

"Did men forget they can just go to their regular gym?" someone else questioned, while another added, "to the men that are mad: You made this happen."

Additional reporting by Ellie Spina.

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