Pet Owners Who Became Parents: Tell Us How Having A Child Changed Your Relationship With Your Pet

We've all seen those viral feel-good photos. Glowing new parents bring their baby home from the hospital and eagerly make the introduction to their cat or dog, and boom, they're instantly best friends.

Two dogs and a baby are in a stroller, dressed as Star Wars characters: a dog as Darth Vader, the baby as Princess Leia, and the second dog as Yoda
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Word on the street, though, is that it doesn't always go like this. Maybe a dog gets jealous of the attention given to the new family member, or the baby starts tormenting the family cat.

A cat with orange and white fur hisses with its mouth open, showing its teeth and whiskers
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But what I want to know is how YOUR relationship with your pets changed when you welcomed a child into the family.

Julie Andrews sits on a throne, holding a crown. Anne Hathaway sits below her, accompanied by a cat and a dog. Both wear elegant dresses and tiaras
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Was it easy from the start to make both baby and pet feel loved and cared for? Or did it take time to figure out your new balance?

A child in a hat stands on a podium next to two dogs, one on a 1st-place box and the other on a 2nd-place box, at a dog-themed event
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Maybe with a new baby taking up so much of your time, you didn't have the same time or energy to devote to your pet as you once did, and you felt guilty for it.

John Stamos holds two blonde kids, with Candace Cameron Bure and Jodie Sweetin sitting nearby. A golden retriever stands in the center holding a remote in a scene from "Full House"
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Or maybe welcoming a child into the family actually made you appreciate your dog or cat that much more, and you prioritized them even more than you did before.

A person with glasses holds a tabby cat on their shoulder, both looking in the same direction
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Whatever your story is, tell us in the comments below or using this Google form. We may feature your response in an upcoming BuzzFeed Community post.