People Are Revealing What Their High School Crushes Are Up To Now, And It Ranges From Absolutely Wild To Heartwarmingly Cute

It's always interesting to find out what people from your high school are up to.

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And it's especially interesting to see what your crushes are doing now and who they ended up with.

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In one Reddit thread, people who graduated years ago shared what their crushes are doing now, and it's truly a mixed bag.

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Here are the 19 responses that stood out, in no particular order:

1."He’s living with his boyfriend on the coast of California. No, I didn’t know he was gay."

–prunepicker

2."He’s married, had two fabulous kids, him and his wife own a ranch where it looks gorgeous. I’m divorced, unemployed, trying to restart my life in my mid-40’s and it just.......It’s hard."

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–bored-now

3."I think he's married to his high school sweetheart. Meanwhile, I just choked on a Dorito."

–offbrandsoap

4."Watching TV in our room. We reconnected almost 20 years after high school. I’m planning on proposing next month."

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5."She’s married to a guy in the MLB; before me, she dated another guy who made it to the NBA. I’m decent at beer pong and throwing a frisbee tho :/."

–shalste2

6."These days, she spends most of her time in her grave."

–goat-of-mendes

7."Got back together with him after 38 years apart. We had 8 wonderful years before he died of cancer. He's been gone 3 years now, and the loss is still fresh. But I am so glad we had those 8 years!"

–uusuzanne

8."Prison. I did, however, hook up with him before prison."

–squeeeeenis

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9."She's married, but we met up a couple years ago (which was 9 years after graduation), and we slept together. It brought some insane feelings back. I think it did for her too. Several months after that, she told me she was getting married in an almost apologetic email. I wasn't sure what I was supposed to say, so I congratulated her and told her I was happy for her. She's the one that got away twice."

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–junkinthebonnet

10."She is a renowned Photoshop artist, doing freelance work for big companies and earning probably 10x as much as I do. I am proud of her."

–trollie74

11."Blonde, married a Hispanic guy, has three kids, happy. I'm a Hispanic guy married to a blonde but no kids (yet) and also happy. Guess we were each other's type but didn't click."

–runasaur

12."Engaged to the girl he told me not to worry about."

–peggysue42

13."She's a CrossFit bodybuilder now. I am struggling to go to the gym once a week."

–JDLovesElliot

14."Designing software or something for NASA..."

–fireflycatcher

15."I don't know what her actual job is, but she breeds various large dogs and sells them for about $1k a pop. Socially, she's been married, they both cheated on each other, she had a kid that wasn't his, and she's divorced, living in a trailer chain smoking cigarettes."

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–bumpedcar

16."She came out as a lesbian and started dating my best friend. I have since come out as gay, so we're all just friends now."

–jewbotbotbot

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17."I'm a bi guy. I had two huge high school crushes, both of which were my best friends at one point. One was a guy, one was a girl. Those two are currently engaged. High school was a confusing time lmao."

–MuckFichigan19

18."One went on to be a professional photographer. The other one is still my best friend to this day. I’m 80% sure she’s grooming me to be someone she can eventually be with. I know it sounds odd, but over the years, she’s taught me how to kiss the way she likes, all her little spots she likes being touched, how to wash and fold her clothes, and how to make all of her favorite foods. Either that, or she’s prepping me to be a useful house worker in the future."

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–briNo64

19.And finally, "She was a model. Then, she stopped after they put her on a three-apples-a-day diet. She fucking gorgeous, 5"6, and Barbie doll figure. And they said she needed to lose weight...she was smart enough to call it quits."

–jeebadown99

Do you know what your high school crush is doing now? Let me know in the comments!