Allison Holker responds to backlash against her memoir about late husband Stephen 'tWitch' Boss

Holker says her goal is to "celebrate the love and life I shared with Stephen" and "share warning signs with others" struggling with mental health.

Stefanie Keenan/Getty Allison Holker in 2024

Stefanie Keenan/Getty

Allison Holker in 2024

Allison Holker is responding to family and friends of her late husband Stephen "tWitch" Boss after receiving criticism for her new memoir, This Far, which details his 2022 death.

"To fans of Stephen and our family and friends, I want to be clear that my only intention in writing the book is to share my own story as well as part of my life with Stephen to help other people," she began a lengthy statement posted to her Instagram Stories on January 8.

Holker enumerated two primary motives for writing the memoir: "to celebrate the love and life I shared with Stephen and our three beautiful children, and also the more complex aspects of both of our lives," and to "help someone else who might see themselves or a loved one in Stephen. In sharing I hope that maybe they can catch some the red flags that I missed before it's too late."

Allison Holker/Instagram Allison Holker on Instagram in 2025

Allison Holker/Instagram

Allison Holker on Instagram in 2025

Boss died at the age of 40 in Dec. 2022. The Los Angeles County coroner's office concluded that the DJ known for his tenure on the The Ellen DeGeneres Show died died by suicide.

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Comments Holker made to PEOPLE in a Jan. 7 interview triggered the wave of criticism. Holker recounted a "triggering moment" in which "a lot of things I discovered in our closet that I did not know existed" while selecting an outfit for Boss's funeral. The former So You Think You Can Dance? contestant described a "cornucopia" of drugs and "other substances" recovered from the closet, a grim reminder that Boss "was hiding so much, and there must have been a lot of shame in that."

The same day, family friend Courtney Ann Platt shared a photo of the story on her Instagram, calling the memoir "by far the most tacky, classless, opportunistic act I have ever seen in my entire life."

"Here you go and write a book with all the dirty laundry smearing his name and attempting to dim the bright loyal, loving, light that was your husband, my friend," she continued, calling the publication and promotion of the memoir a "smear campaign." Boss's brother Dré Rose then shared Platt's post with the caption, "No lies told."

Rodin Eckenroth/WireImage Allison Holker and Stephen

Rodin Eckenroth/WireImage

Allison Holker and Stephen "tWitch" Boss in 2022

Related: Ellen DeGeneres mourns the death of Stephen 'tWitch' Boss: 'I loved him with all my heart'

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"Over the course of the last 2 years, I've spoken in detail with NAMI as well as the Solomon family and THE DEFENSIVE LINE foundation to better educate myself on mental health issues so that I can share warning signs with others," Holker wrote on Instagram today. She added that all the proceeds from her memoir will be donated to "the mental health focused foundation I started in Stephen's honor, Move with Kindness."

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Holker concluded her post by writing, "My hope is that we don't need to lose another husband, brother, father, or friend to suicide. I believe that if Stephen were able to choose, he would choose to have his story told if it meant saving even one life. Much love to all those who have supported our family these many years."

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Holker and Boss's romance first sparked when they both appeared as All Stars on season 7 of So You Think You Can Dance. "We shared a dance at the wrap party of that season of So You Think You Can Dance and we have been together ever since," Boss told PEOPLE at the time.

The couple eventually married in 2013 and welcomed three children - Weslie (16), Maddox (8), and Zaia (5).

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