We Want To Know The Most Controversial Wedding "Requirement" You Saw In 2024

Morgan Sloss
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It's no secret that wedding culture has gotten prettyyy out of hand.

Bride in lace gown and groom in suit kiss at an outdoor wedding reception with sparklers and a decorated table
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So, we wanna know: What's the most controversial wedding "requirement" you saw this year?

Maybe an old friend asked you to be a bridesmaid, but she said no one in the wedding party could have hair dyed non-natural colors. You reminded her that your hair is dyed blue and has been for years. In the end, you declined to be a bridesmaid.

Person with short hair wearing a beanie and jacket, looking at their smartphone with a thoughtful expression. Urban background
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Perhaps you were invited to an acquaintance's wedding, but the invitation asked for gifts worth over $300 per person to help cover the cost. This was way outside your budget, so you didn't go.

Two smiling people in suits with bow ties and white rose boutonnieres lean toward each other outside a brick building
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Or maybe your friend told you about a wedding she went to. All the guests were required to wear "neutral colors," and the bride was unhappy when people showed up in an array of colors because they didn't know what that meant.

A couple indoors; a man in a suit looks frustrated, while a woman in a dress sits on a sofa, looking at her phone with a concerned expression
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Whatever it is, we wanna know! What's the most controversial wedding requirement you saw in 2024? Let us know in the comments below or in this anonymous Google form for a chance to be featured in an upcoming BuzzFeed Community post!

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