Yahoo Lifestyle 31 Naughty Sex Acts Folks Totally Swear By (And Will Most Likely Get You All Hot And Bothered)
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Some people out there might have bland sex lives or have experienced dry spells. This is bound to happen from time to time, and as someone who's been there, I know it is *******not******* fun!
Pain indeed.
But thankfully, Reddit user Key_Cod4097 asked folks how they make sex more enjoyable and mind-blowing.
And I cannot tell you how insightful and inspiring these spicy sex tips are (actually, I can...just continue reading this informative post. You won't regret it).
Note: These submissions don't reflect a universal experience of sex acts people enjoy. Everyone's interests are different.
Some submissions were pulled from this Reddit thread by user u/Common-Sprinkles9328.
"Get a set of sex position cards and shuffle them, then take turns drawing one at random. Check with each other on willingness and interest in trying said position, then go for it! Or, both of you go through the deck, and each picks three positions that look interesting to you. Share them with each other to make sure those are okay to try, and then have fun!"
"Go to a kink club as a couple. You don't have to participate."
"Call out your own name when you climax."
"I like to make her laugh before we truly get into it. Before the foreplay even begins, I’ll tickle her, and make silly voices to make her downright giddy. Then I hit her with the 'permission to come aboard, captain?' before disappointing her haha."
"For me, it helps to be with someone who lives in the moment and doesn't think everything to death (including myself)."
"We've been together for over 25 years...toys. The answer is toys. You think that blowjob was good before? Let her use a vibrator while she gives you one!"
"Spontaneity! As per my guy, he likes it when the sex is unpredictable at the moment and playful. For example, he gets surprise blowjobs when he gets home from work. He also likes it when I wake him up and he sees me getting under the sheets, ready to give him head. He also likes it when we have sex in different places (not just in the bedroom or other spots inside the house)."
"I personally like having my partner whisper to me how good he was in bed with other women while he plays with me."
"There are a ton of other body parts you can work on while being naked. Naked massage, naked feather dusting, naked 'twiddles,' naked 'knuckle dustings.' Just get creative — you have an entire human body in front of you."
"Take the time to engage in foreplay. Assuming it's with someone you have developed a connection with, bathing together and/or getting massages are fantastic ways to get things started. Be open and honest with each other about what your desires are — even knowing that the other person is aware and accepting of your kinks (if any) makes the whole experience 100x better."
"Keeping each other's clothes on until you absolutely cannot resist undressing the other person yourself. Basically, it's just extended foreplay...and teasing? I once had a girl climb on top of me in my bed and press my hands above my head. We had our clothes on, but she was rubbing on me and described what she wanted me to do to her. She told me how wet I was already making her, all while whispering in my ear and kissing my neck. I guess that's my weakness because I fucking busted with my pants still on. I had only ever read porn where that happened, but never thought I could do it. We didn't stop — she's my long-term girlfriend now. I've never been more sexually and emotionally satisfied."
"Don't masturbate one week before having sex."
"[Doing it with the right person]. I've been married for 10 years, and I feel more connected and in love with my wife than I have ever been. We had sex last night, and it was just missionary, but the connection I felt, the kissing and love, it was the best sex I’ve ever had. And she told me to cum in her, which is a bonus."
"Having a certain kind of stamina. Being in shape and not gassing out after three minutes of thrusting so I can actually think about the sex and how to pleasure a woman rather than how I’m about to have a myocardial infarction and probably look like a panting pig on top."
"The deeper you breathe, the better your orgasm."
"Sexy and suggestive outfits — not just lingerie. A short skirt (I cannot stress this enough), yoga pants, leggings, or lounge shorts that fit a bit loose, so at the right angle, you catch a little glimpse. We go into thrift stores, and I look for risqué stuff that she's willing to wear in public."
"The key is really listening to your partner and working on opening up and taking interest. My wife reads romance novels, and I decided to surprise her just by listening to the audiobooks. Even though we've been married for 15 years, it helps me understand her more, putting their needs above your own. It lets you both open up, but you have to be open, too. We've had some mind-blowing sex since then."
"Homemade cannabis lube [is awesome] 🌱."
"Keep trying new things, new ways of doing old things, and experiment without forgetting about the things that worked before. Basically, mix it up a little. I've been with my wife for 18 years, and it's been good. We still find some different things to try without doing nasty things."
"Bring an element of fun into it! My partner and I are naturally competitive people, and we 'make bets' on who can get the other person off first. We also have a great sense of respect and connection and communicate what the other person does well, so we know each other's bodies. It’s always just fun to roll around and make each other feel good."
"Let the tension build up. Give each other subtle hints all day with slowly increasing tantalations until the dam bursts."
"I like possessive neck-holding (not choking). I found that out with a FWB who did it so gently until I rolled over and then he grabbed me and held me tighter. He was a nice weighted blanket, and I realized I wanted more of that feeling."
"Sensory deprivation. One partner is tied up wearing a blindfold and noise-cancelling headphones while the other partner is 'in charge' of pleasuring the deprived. For the deprived, it is very intense (as you are giving yourself fully to your partner) and trusting them to please you. You can't see, you can't hear, and you are tied up so you can only move as far as your bindings allow. The anticipation alone has brought me to orgasm (side note: make sure the music in the headphones is conducive to the situation)."
"I did copy the [porn] idea of having her on her stomach, legs together, me sitting across her back thighs, and arching a little while I enter her from behind. God, I love the feeling and the view."
"Missionary anal. We had trouble trying anal because of my girl's size and my size. My wife is petite, so trying different angles was never comfortable for her. Until I watched a video where the guy puts a big pillow under the girl's hips and fucks her on the corner of the bed...that's our favorite pose now."
"Have sex as often as possible. My wife and I fuck at least twice a day, the bare minimum. I got lucky and found a wife who loves to fuck and fuck often (she's also very orgasmic). Since menopause, she is definitely hornier. She is also very adventurous. There have been many times when we tried something new and said, 'What the fuck were we thinking? We aren't 20 anymore!' We have been together for 46 years."
"Pegging. In my twenties I had a girlfriend who was into anal play (this was the '90s, so it was kind of unheard of for me). But I've always been up for trying things. I eventually graduated to plugs and then years later, I had a partner who wanted to try pegging. I can still remember going into the adult toy shop together to buy a pegging kit — I was slightly embarrassed and nervous, but very excited. The sales assistant was great."
"There's something about public sex that hits different. Like, I’m not talking about doing it where people can obviously see you — but off to the side where you can still get caught by a passerby. You’re hidden enough to where you’re not gonna be arrested for public indecency and registered as a sex offender. There’s something about the outside air that gives it a more energetic feel that spices things up just right — nature meets nature."
And last (but certainly not least):
"Being bitten. A girl I was dating in high school bit me on the ear as a joke, but I got turned on instantly. Don't know why, don't care, but I love it to this day (lips, neck, ears, and shaft if she's not biting too hard)."
"I recently discovered the joy of impact play. Nothing makes me drip more than having my vagina slapped hard. I found I don't like being slapped on my butt, but while I was on my knees, I was accidentally hit lower and it was amazing. So I asked for it harder and harder. The indirect pressure feels like it goes straight to my clitoris — there are other objects people use, but I personally don't find it necessary. A hard, open hand has the best aim and feeling to me. I thought it was only a book fantasy that I could be dripping down my leg."
"When fingering a woman with one hand, use your other hand to gently push down on her pubic area above where your fingers would be inside her around the G-spot for added pleasure. It's kind of like you’re pushing her g-spot down onto your fingers while fingering her."
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Note: Some submissions have been edited for length and/or clarity
