19 Facts About The Real Erik And Lyle Menendez (And Their Trial) That You Probably Don't Know

This post contains mentions of sexual abuse and child abuse.

If you've been on Netflix recently, you've probably noticed there's a new #1 show in the US. Monsters: The Lyle and Erik Menendez Story is the second season in Ryan Murphy's anthology series and yet another true crime show garnering widespread attention.

Cooper Koch, Nicholas Alexander Chavez, and Javier Bardem dressed in '80s clothing in a scene from "Monsters: The Lyle and Erik Menendez Story"
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The new series tells the story of Lyle and Erik Menendez, who were convicted of murdering their parents, José and Mary Louise "Kitty" Menendez. In 1996, they were found guilty and sentenced to life without parole.

Erik and Lyle Menendez in the show, "Monsters: The Lyle and Erik Menendez Story" vs Erik and Lyle in real life

The show details José and Kitty's murders, what Lyle and Erik did in the days following their parents' deaths, their trials, and more.

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So because Monsters: The Lyle and Erik Menendez Story is based on real people and a real case, here are 19 facts about Lyle and Erik and what exactly happened:

There are obviously major spoilers ahead for Monsters: The Lyle and Erik Menendez Story on Netflix.

1.First, José and Mary Louise "Kitty" Menendez were shot multiple times at close range inside their Beverly Hills mansion on Aug. 20, 1989. According to the LA Times, "15 blasts from two shotguns" were fired at the scene of the crime.

Chloë Sevigny in a dress and Javier Bardem in a dark polo shirt sit on a patterned couch with serious expressions in a living room setting

2.Lyle Menendez called 911, reportedly saying, "They shot and killed my parents." In an interview after police arrived, Erik Menendez reportedly said, "Once we realized what had happened after we called the police, it started sinking into our heads: These aren't just two people. These are our parents."

Erik Menendez and Lyle Menendez stand outside a building, both wearing casual athletic clothing

At the scene of the crime, police also found that the shell casings from the shotguns were cleaned up from "the pools of blood on the Oriental rug and parquet floor."

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3.Following the murders, Lyle and Erik's behavior attracted the attention of the police, according to the LA Times. As depicted in the Netflix series, Lyle reportedly went on a shopping spree, even buying a Porsche Carrera for $64,000. According to Rolling Stone, the brothers apparently spent "an estimated $700,000."

Cooper Koch and Nicholas Alexander Chavez in a scene from "Monsters: The Lyle and Erik Menendez Story," wearing sunglasses inside

4.Six months after José and Kitty were killed, Lyle was arrested for their murder at the family's home in Beverly Hills. Three days later, according to the LA Times, Erik flew home from a tennis tournament in Israel and "voluntarily surrendered" at LAX.

Erik and Lyle Menendez sit on steps outside. Erik wears a track jacket and shorts, while Lylet wears a t-shirt and pants, making hand gestures

5.Prior to their arrests, Judalon Smyth, the girlfriend of Dr. L. Jerome Oziel, a therapist the brothers were seeing, reportedly contacted the police and told them about the existence of recordings where the Menendez brothers "allegedly confessed to the murders of their parents" according to Vanity Fair.

A scene from "Monsters: The Lyle and Erik Menendez Story" featuring Smyth and Oziel

6.On the tapes heard in court, Lyle was reportedly heard telling Oziel, "There was no way I was going to make a decision to kill my mother without Erik's consent. I didn't even want to influence him in that issue."

Lyle Menendez in a white shirt and red tie is sitting thoughtfully in a courtroom

7.Leslie Abramson, Erik's lead defense counsel, fought to exclude Oziel's tapes from the trial but lost. Instead, Oziel became a central plot point in the Menendez brothers' first trial. Abramson reportedly got Oziel to admit that he never told the Menendez family that his license was on probation due to an inappropriate "dual relationship" where he exchanged construction work from a patient for therapy.

Erik Menendez and Lyle Menendez sit in a courtroom. Erik is in blue prison attire, Lyle is in a gray prison shirt, and a woman in a black jacket sits between them

8.On top of that, the trial also apparently revealed that Oziel did not, in fact, turn the tapes over to the authorities but instead tried to extort money from Lyle and Erik by saying they should keep paying him because it would "be good for their defense" if they were ever on trial.

In a court setting, Menendez brothers, Lyle and Erik, with their lawyer attentive, all seated at a table during a legal proceeding

9.The first trial made history in 1993 as it played out live on TV. According to Rolling Stone, the proceedings were broadcast on Court TV. Notably, the brothers faced the possibility of the death penalty if they were convicted of first-degree murder.

Erik Menendez sitting in a courtroom
Erik Menendez sitting in a courtroom
Lyle Menendez in a courtroom wearing a blue LA County inmate shirt over a white long-sleeve undershirt
Lyle Menendez in a courtroom wearing a blue LA County inmate shirt over a white long-sleeve undershirt

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In an interview with Rolling Stone, Steven Brill, a lawyer and journalist, said, “[The Menendez trial] probably had the effect, maybe good, maybe bad, of demonstrating that, even if you didn’t have a celebrity, if the circumstances were dramatic enough, people will be captivated."

10.Despite Monsters: The Lyle and Erik Menendez Story implying that Lyle and Erik had an incestuous relationship, Lyle reportedly testified in court during the trial that they "never" had a sexual relationship. In an interview with the Hollywood Reporter, Robert Rand, who wrote the book The Menendez Murders, said, "I don’t believe that Erik and Lyle Menendez were ever lovers. I think that's a fantasy that was in the mind of Dominick Dunne."

In a scene from "Monsters: The Lyle and Erik Menendez Story," Lyle is seen leaning down and kissing Erik on the lips

11.During the first trial, the brothers claimed that they killed their parents in self-defense after testifying that they were sexually abused by their father, and their mother knew about it. Eventually, it was declared a mistrial, with the jury reportedly divided over whether the brothers "should be convicted of murder or manslaughter."

Erk Menendez in a witness stand, speaking into a microphone, wearing a light-colored shirt. Emotions are evident on his face. ABC Nightline logo shown
Erk Menendez in a witness stand, speaking into a microphone, wearing a light-colored shirt. Emotions are evident on his face. ABC Nightline logo shown
Lyle Menendez in a courtroom giving testimony, looking upwards. ABC's Nightline logo is in the bottom right corner
Lyle Menendez in a courtroom giving testimony, looking upwards. ABC's Nightline logo is in the bottom right corner

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According to CBS News, Lyle testified that his father began sexually abusing him when "he was only 6 years old," with the abuse stopping when he was 8. However, Erik testified that the abuse "never ended" for him.

12.At their first trial, the brothers' cousin, Andy Cano, reportedly testified that he knew about the alleged abuse they faced, namely Erik, who confided in Andy when he was 13 years old. Erik reportedly wanted to know if what was happening to him was a "normal" father-son relationship.

Andy Cano, cousin of the Menendez brothers, testifies in court. The image is from an ABC #Nightline segment

13.When the second trial began in 1995, the prosecutors argued that the brothers lied about the abuse they experienced. They even reportedly coined their defense, "The abuse excuse." There were also no video cameras in the courtroom this time, and Lyle didn't even take the stand. This limited the "testimonies about the alleged sexual abuse," according to ABC News.

Erik and Lyle Menendez in suits appear in a courtroom scene from a Netflix documentary

The state reportedly emphasized the "brutality of the crime" during the second trial.

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14.In April 1996, Lyle and Erik were sentenced to life in prison "with no hope of parole," per the LA Times. At the time of sentencing, Lyle's lawyer, Charles Gessler, said, "It’s just a tremendous relief when you hear those words... 'life without parole.' Lyle is relieved because he wants to live."

Two men, Lyle and Erik Menendez, in blue prison uniforms sit in court with their lawyer. Others are seated in the background during their trial

15.At the time of their sentencing, jurors apparently said that the "abuse defense never was much of a factor in their deliberations," per the LA Times.

Menendez brothers in court, both wearing blue prison uniforms, one covering his face with his hand, the other with his arm in a sling

16.In 2018, after spending more than 20 years separated in prison, Erik and Lyle reunited. According to ABC News, the last time they saw each other was on Sept. 10, 1996, when they could see each other across a prison yard but didn't talk. Over the years, they were able to write letters while serving their life sentences but weren't permitted to talk on the phone.

Erik and Lyle Menendez, both in blue prison uniforms, are seated at a table. The image is from a 1996 episode of ABC's Nightline

17.In 2023, new evidence was found reportedly corroborating Erik and Lyle's claims of abuse and killing their parents out of self-defense. A letter written by Erik to his cousin, Andy Cano, in 1988 was found. Part of the letter reads, "I've been trying to avoid Dad. It's still happening, Andy, but it's worse for me now."

Erik Menendez shown in a courtroom scene, appearing emotional or distressed, with a microphone in front of him. Netflix logo in the top right corner

18.Alongside the letter, former Menudo band member Roy Rosselló alleged that he was sexually assaulted by José Menendez, thus also corroborating the alleged abuse Lyle and Erik testified about. As part of the 2023 docuseries Menendez + Menudo: Boys Betrayed, Rosselló alleged that when he was 14 years old, he was drugged and raped by José while visiting his home in New Jersey.

Group photo of Menudo members: Ricky Martin, Robby Rosa, Ray Reyes, Johnny Lozada, and Roy Rosselló, all smiling and casual in light fashion attire

19.And finally, in May 2023, the Menendez brothers' attorney filed a habeas petition, citing the letter and Rosselló's affidavit as new evidence. According to CBS News, the petition asks that Erik and Lyle's convictions be vacated.

Three mugshots showing two men, labeled E Menendez (taken 12/15/2000 and 8/7/2002) and J Menendez (taken 07/08/03) with identification numbers K14101 and K13758

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