Posted Wed 17 Oct 2012 19:17
Well think to yourself, why are you telling people? if it is the father of the child, i think he has to know, it might have been casual but sex equals pregnancy so he is also responsible for your child and its upbringing.
Children need to know who their parents are even if it is for the future. Most adults who grew up without one parent will tell you their hole is always there.
Just leave it be for another month, decide whether you want to stay pregnant and consider telling your children first. They are your only responsibility and the most important people in your life.
also maybe discuss long term birth control so you can focuss on raising your children and getting your life back into swing by studying etc.
good luck and take heart, life goes on, it is your choices from now on that will make the difference to your life.