Eight things she hates about you

The biggest fight in my relationship has been replayed more times than Janet's wardrobe malfunction. It usually happens something like this: first, after three or four hours of silent abuse by me, my boyfriend starts to suspect something's up.

"I know you're annoyed," he says. "What did I do?"
"You didn't do anything," I say. "It's fine, whatever. I'm not annoyed."
"Just tell me."

This goes on for hours until I finally blurt it out: "You didn't introduce me when we ran into that guy you work with! And why do you need to go out to brunch with your ex?" Then I feel silly for letting such small things bother me, and we laugh and roll around on the bed and all is right again in our world.

But he raises a good point: most of the time he has no idea of what sets me off. Which is why I've prepared this handy inventory of things men tend to do that we tend to find annoying.

If you study up, you'll be able to stop repelling the women you want to meet - or aggravating the one you have. And we women can continue not telling you why we're mad, because we'll figure, "Hey, he should know already!" Besides, who said this would be fair?

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Eight things she hates about you

Don't know why she's angry? Now you do . . .

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  1. Adam10:19am Tuesday 14th January 2014 ESTReport Abuse

    Then YOU feel silly for letting such SMALL things bother you, like he's turned the whole thing around on you and you're the victim, right? You should feel silly for turning small things into huge things by giving him the silent treatment for 4 freakin' hours. If it's such a small thing then just say what it is. Women and their bloody mind games. Oh, but I forgot, they're the victims.

  2. Adam09:24am Monday 27th May 2013 ESTReport Abuse

    So women have gone to the trouble to prepare this list for us men to study so we can be better mind readers? God forbid a woman should actually say what's bothering her. Oh no, we have to be mind readers and figure it out. And by the way, this guy continues to ask her what's wrong, meaning he actually cares. But apparently women find that annoying. But if he takes her at her word that there's nothing wrong, and pays no more attention, then he's a jerk because he doesn't care. Typical! Ladies, how about you just stop playing attention seeking mind games and just be straight up and honest?

  3. The The07:42am Monday 27th May 2013 ESTReport Abuse

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