47 Ways To Make Her Love You

June 26, 2012, 11:44 am Siski Green menshealth

It's easy when you know how, right? Well then, here's the know-how.

Sex & Women

1. Go with the flow

All women cry, so get your reaction right. Cuddle her, gently wipe away the tears and ask what's wrong. Then understand a fundamental difference between men and women: she doesn't want solutions, she just wants you to listen.

2. Clean up afterwards

Every time she cleans your shaving stubble from the basin, she loves you a little less.

3. Keep quiet

Women are genetically programmed to ask you why you split up with your ex-girlfriends and to over-analyse what your answer means for your relationship. Avoid problems with a simple, "She wasn't you".

4. Be prepared

Stash a photo of her in your wallet. She'll deny it, but all women rummage at some point, so use this to your advantage.

5. Come clean

Women have a much better sense of smell than men, so wash yourself, your doona and clothes before you think you need to.

6. Give her a reason

"I love you" is from anyone to anyone, so explain why you love her. Whether it's the way she nibbles a Kit-Kat or how her nose scrunches when she drinks tequila - your reasons make it unique to her.

7. Talk...

Often and properly. If she asks you how your day went, don't say "fine". Giving her details makes her feel involved in your life.

8. ...and listen

Ask about her day, really listen, then ask her a question about what she's just told you, to prove you were paying attention.

9. Get personal

Roses are good, but they could be for anyone, so if you first danced to Hold Me Now by the Thompson Twins, hunt down the vinyl to show your singular love for her.

10. Discern

Only give good tips for good service. It shows you're observant, value attention and that you're selective with praise and generosity, making her feel "chosen" as well.

11. Call room service

When she's away, phone the hotel where she's staying and have strawberries and bubbly sent up to her room. A treat when you're not around shows that you're not expecting anything in return.

12. Consult her

Ask her advice on something important to you, even if you don't really need it. It will show her you value her opinion and that she's part of your plans.

13. Don't stop

Most men start out as great boyfriends: love notes under her pillow, waxing lyrical about her "fantastic" body and actually listening when she talks. A year later it's rings around her bath, waxing lyrical about J-Lo's bum and needing a sharp elbow to facilitate any kind of communication. Don't take her for granted - keep at it.

14. Take her with you . . .

To a football or rugby match. Once she too has experienced the relief that comes from verbally abusing the ref, she'll be far more forgiving of the time you spend watching sport.

15. Be a family man

Introduce her to your brother, sister, nephew, grandm - it shows you care about family, without subjecting her to the terror of a parental encounter. She sees how you treat them as an indicator of how she'll be treated.

The nine best things you can say to a woman

16. "I love your eyelashes."
17. "Sex with you just gets better and better."
18. "You look beautiful when you're sleeping."
19. "The way you dance is really sexy."
20. "You have a wonderful laugh."
21. "You're so clever."
22. "Your scrambled eggs taste even better than my mum's."
23. "Your skin smells fantastic."
(And finally . . .)

24. "Lets spend the weekend at my villa in Tuscany."

25. Mop it up

Weekends away are sweet, but regularly vacuuming the house, cleaning the bathroom, cooking dinner and washing up afterwards will make her love you more. Putting in some of your hours takes more effort than getting your wallet out.

26. Don't make a period drama

A women's menstrual cycle lasts 28 days and she'll probably be emotionally fragile two or three days before the first day of her period. Jot it in your diary, set the alarm on your mobile, anything to remind you so you don't laugh out loud when she cries during Harry's Practice.

27. And keep it to yourself

"How dare you dismiss my emotional turmoil as hormonal?"

28. Remember how it was in the early days

For a happy ending, remember the beginning: the details of your first meeting, where you were, what she was wearing, what you said and how you felt. Recount them. Often.

31. Get wet

Okay, it may sound like that Herbal Essences shampoo ad, but if you wash her hair for her and give her a scalp massage while you're at it, she'll fall head over heels for you.

32. Make love

Do it softly, sweetly and with tenderness.

33. Now F**k

Yes, we also like it downright dirty sometimes.

34. Time it right

Ten minutes late shows you're a busy man, 20 minutes means you've made a miscalculation and you'll be forgiven; 30 minutes late or more and she knows you don't think her time is as important as yours.

35. Go out with your mates

Despite what you may think, no woman wants a doormat for a partner. Spend every waking moment gazing adoringly into her eyes and she'll start gazing adoringly elsewhere.

36. Explore new territory

Kissing is a given, but do a little oral orienteering to make your lip service stand out. Prime sites are lips, elbows and just below her ear. But let's not forget her inner thighs, her toes and, of course, her clitoris.

37. Shout it out

She wants everyone to know how you feel about her, so tell her she looks amazing in whatever colour she's wearing when there are other people in the room. Or send a bunch of freesias to her work (it's much less obvious than roses and they have a wonderful, strong smell, so everyone in the office will comment on them).

38. Give her a break

Run her a "holiday bath" when she gets home from work. Throw in a big, pink bath bomb (from Lush, www.lush.com.au) to turn the water fuschia pink.

39. Open doors

It's time to settle the debate once and for all: it's not condescending, it doesn't imply she can't do it herself - it's just a nice gesture.

40. Prove the ex is old news

If you bump into a previous partner, squeeze your ladies hand, pull her towards you and smile. The outward display of affection tells her it's truly over with your ex; the hand squeeze shows you have a secret bond no-one else can share.

41. Make yourself sick

Leave her love notes around the house - inside the fridge, on the bathroom mirror or under a pillow. That much sweetness might make you feel plain nauseous, but it'll make her feel like a lovesick teenager.

42. Keep a secret

You may regard Beyonce's curves as sculpted by a loving God, but no matter how many times she casually asks - and how cool she seems - don't ever tell her what you really think.

43. Time it right

You know women love compliments, but pick your moment carefully for extra brownie points. Tell her she looks great when she's just had a shower and isn't wearing make-up and figure-transforming clothing.

Gift-wrapped short cuts to a woman's heart:

44. Bulgari soft leather "Tubo" bag (call [02] 9233 3611)

Heed this timeless wisdom: harness the power of accessories and you will prosper. Add a pair of matching shoes and you'll never miss another footy final.

45. Jewellery (platinum-set diamond studs from Tiffany & Co., call [02] 9235 1777)

If you are yet to provide her with expensive, sparkly things in a blue box, do so as soon as humanely possible.

46. Nike "City Knife" trainers (call [1300] 656 453).

Sexy underwear is a nice idea - for both of you. So buy her something that's definitely just for her.

47. S.T. Dupont "Contraste" MS multifunction diary (call [02] 9315 9343).
It's beautifully lined with supple lambskin and fits into her handbag. Customise it with love notes on random dates.

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  5. Sarah11:13am Thursday 04th July 2013 ESTReport Abuse

    Articles like this make all women look bad. What an absolute load of horse#$%$ this is. Guys just be yourselves if she dosn't like you as you are move on... WTF was that #$%$ about tuscany? Lol I'm sick of articles that stereotype men and women this way as if we are all carbon copies that fit in some boxes that say how we think, what we like etc to the #$%$ who wrote this rubbish speak for your damn self not the rest of us thankyou.

  6. Gus01:09pm Monday 17th June 2013 ESTReport Abuse

    @David - You are looking in the wrong places or you are openly displaying your fear of women. There are so many lovely single women out there just looking for a nice guy. Especially one who doesn't lump all women into a single category - you have to stop thinking about women as if they are a separate species.

  7. Clive08:58pm Thursday 13th June 2013 ESTReport Abuse

    Who is Karamea? WOW!!!

  8. Karamea10:32pm Tuesday 23rd April 2013 ESTReport Abuse

    @ Mexican Hat Seller - She wants/expects to benefit from you for her own selfish fulfillment? Did you want and expect benefits for you, to fulfill your needs? You make it sound, like your having a tantrum. Whatever happen to communication and comprising. By the way, this writer is a woman. Not the author of this article.

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  9. Karamea10:17pm Tuesday 23rd April 2013 ESTReport Abuse

    @ David - I heard what your saying, it's not the end of the world, it's only begun. Obviously, it wasn't meant to be, look at this way, she/they did you a big favor. It's call gaining experience, for bigger n a better future, with the one your meant to be with. Get out there, do the things your always wanted to do, enjoy life. Especially, before you get married and have babies.

  10. Karamea09:52pm Tuesday 23rd April 2013 ESTReport Abuse

    @ Ln- You can have me, I'm 67, I did have all my teeth....



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