"This Is The Most Human And Mature Way I've Seen People Dealing With Divorce": People Are Stunned By Leah Remini And Angelo Pagán's Heartfelt Breakup Announcement

Leah Remini and Angelo Pagán are ending their marriage, and their joint message has received praise from other celebrities.

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Leah Remini with long, wavy hair, wearing a sleek black outfit and gold necklaces, posing at an event
Closeup of Angelo Pagan
Closeup of Angelo Pagan

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You know Leah from the CBS sitcoms The King of Queens and Kevin Can Wait, several films, and her much-publicized relationship with the Church of Scientology.

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Angelo has appeared in several film and TV roles as well, including 2001's Swordfish and, most recently, Bosch: Legacy.

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Together, they were a celebrity power couple who shared much of their life on TV and the internet. On Aug 30., they announced they've decided to get a divorce.

"Well, here we are. After 28 years together and 21 years of marriage, we have decided to file for divorce," Leah and Angelo wrote in a joint Instagram post.

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"This decision came after a lot of thought and care, and as hard as divorce is, we are approaching this with a positive outlook because we know it's what's best for us," they wrote. "We are proud of how we have worked through this together."

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"Yes, we're sad, and we've got some figuring out to do as we continue to move forward into our new normal—together still in many ways, and apart in some new ones."

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Leah Remini attends an event. She is wearing a detailed, patterned dress and smiling at the camera
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A man wearing sunglasses and a light-colored collared shirt poses for a photo at a media event

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"But here's the thing: we've been best friends for so many years. We are still celebrating holidays together, watching our favorite tv shows together, and gathering as a family."

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"So, the big question—why?" Leah and Angelo prompted. "To put it simply, we both changed, as people do, and we got used to playing roles that didn't fit us anymore."

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"After a lot of effort and consideration, we've decided to take this step, which reflects who we are today."

Leah and Angelo met in 1996 when she was still an active member of the Church of Scientology. In 2013, she and Angelo publicly exited the church and were very candid about their decision.

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"Our bond is still strong—it's just evolved into something different," they added. "We think a marriage that lasted this long and created so many beautiful memories, especially raising our incredible daughter, is something to celebrate."

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"From our perspective, this marriage was a huge success," Leah and Angelo shared. "And now, we're looking forward to creating even more cherished moments—just in a different way."

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"We want to be as transparent as we can be here because, for years, we shared our marriage so publicly, whether it was on our specials on VH1 or our reality show, which ran for two seasons on TLC."

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A year after their exit from Scientology, Leah created and starred in a reality series, Leah Remini: It's All Relative.

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"We are sharing this unknown territory with you all as we take our first steps into this next stage of our lives publicly," they continued. "We would love for everyone to have more access to different kinds of relationship stories and not feel so isolated in navigating the changes that millions of couples make every year."

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"We hope our journey can inspire others to see that relationships—whether they change or end—aren't failures," they said. "We'll keep sharing snippets of our lives as we navigate this new chapter."

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Leah and Angelo's shared message about their divorce received an outpouring of support and responses from fellow celebrities, fans, and other people who experienced separation from their marriage. Here's what some folks said:

Tisha Campbell Martin expresses pride for Angelo and Leah, praising their understanding, amicable relationship, and emotional intelligence. Ends with "I love you guys."
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Instagram comment from martaracabral: "This is the most human and mature way I’ve seen people dealing with divorce. I hope the best for the both of you! Love you both!!"
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Yvette Nicole Brown comments on Instagram: "Beautiful sentiment from two great friends who've loved each other greatly for the world to see." with a red heart emoji
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Mario Lopez's Instagram comment says, "God Bless you guys!" with two red heart emojis, posted 17 hours ago. It has 736 likes
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Rosie comments, "congratulations," with party and champagne emoji. The comment has 443 likes and no replies
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Michelle Visage commenting "I love you with all I've got" 12 hours ago on social media, with 264 likes
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Holly Robinson Peete's Instagram comment: "Rodney and I love you both so much," with several black heart emojis. 222 likes.
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Instagram comment from essence_says: "Beautiful testimony. Thank you for your transparency; I hope it brings healing." The comment received 91 likes and has a reply
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Cheri Oteri comment reads, "Adore you both" with two heart emojis, posted 17 hours ago, with 108 likes and a reply option
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Cheryl Burke's Instagram post reads, "Love you both so much" with a heart emoji. The post also shows 150 likes and a reply option
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Instagram comment by loueyfromthehood: "LOVE IS YOUR LEGACY...LOVE YOU BOTH...CONTINUE TO BLOSSOM" with a flower emoji. It has 30 likes and 1 reply
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