Former escort Samantha X reveals what men really want in bed

Sarah Carty
Senior Lifestyle & Entertainment Producer

One of Australia’s most well-known former escorts has revealed exactly what men want in bed.

Samantha X, who used to earn over $1,000 per-hour as a sex worker, said that while you might think what men are craving most is kinky sex, that’s not the case at all.

“It’s not wild dirty sex, Pornhub style,” Samatha said in Mamamia’s new sex podcast, ‘Sealed Section’.

Samantha X has revealed what men really want in bed. Photo: Supplied

Instead, after six years in the industry, she found the thing that really left men satisfied was more about giving than receiving.

“It’s giving YOU pleasure and making your toes curl and your cheeks flush,” she explained.

“Men are about ego. Once they know you’re having a good time thanks to their bedroom skills; they will have a good time.”

Samantha was an escort for six years before she retired last October. Photo: Instagram

Samantha, who is the author of Back on Top: Confessions of a High-Class Escort, announced over Instagram that she was retiring from the escorting business back in October after six years in the industry.

Her shock move came just months after Samantha told Be the majority of her time was spent talking to her clients and she even compared herself to an “overpaid psychologist”.

She claims men don’t want the porn star wild experience at all. Photo: Instagram


“They think they want sex, they think that’s why they’re booking you but nine times out of ten, the appointment becomes a phycology session,” Samantha said.

“It’s mostly about talking, it’s mostly about connecting, it’s mostly about listening.”

“Most men prefer the casual look. Very rarely do they want stockings suspenders high heels, they basically want you to blend in.”

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