Men's Health

Do this instead: play the piano

Instead of trying to push a single button, so to speak, think about broadening your coverage. “The sensitive area can be higher, lower or to the side and its size can vary from that of a pinky fingernail to a 50-cent coin,” says Fulbright.
You should also tailor your technique – speed, pressure and angle of approach – to the woman you’re with. “For some women, a massaging motion might be better; for others, tapping might work best,” she says. “Put your index and middle fingers into the area and rock them back and forth. Keep your fingers flat and straight, and vary your pressure.” Pretend you’re playing two keys on a piano, suggests Fulbright, but without curving your fingers.

Jun 26, 2012