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3 Tips for Finding More Meaning in Life

Apr 09 07:57am

“If death meant just leaving the stage long enough to change costume and come back as a new character... Would you slow down? Or speed up?” -Chuck Palahniuk

Imagine this scenario: You quit your job, sell your stuff, give away your money, and venture into the wilderness. Sound familiar? Such is the premise of Into the Wild, the powerful, true life story of Chris McCandless. McCandless graduated from Emory University in 1990, gave away his savings, burned the rest of his money, and stripped down to the bare essentials before winding up in the extreme wilderness of Alaska.

Maybe we could do without such extremes, but who doesn’t dream of giving up the emails, phone calls, and hassles for a sweeter, simpler life? McCandless’s journey was so inspiring not because of the freedom he enjoyed, but because of the meaning he embodied: He was on a mission to prove that a life dedicated to making money in an uninspiring career paled in comparison to anointing his spirit as commander-in-chief of his life. McCandless wrote, “It is the experiences, the memories, the greatest triumphant joy of living to the fullest extent in which real meaning is found.”

There were three really strong themes from his journey that, if given a chance, cut through the bull and embolden life with meaning:

1. Strength

“I read somewhere… how important it is in life not necessarily to be strong… but to feel strong.” –McCandless

Try perceiving strength as tenacity rather strength as ability. One always needs something to believe in, something to fight for, something to work towards. All too often we give up on a dream, which Carolyn Myss calls an “energy abortion.” Myss goes so far to say that if you give up on a dream, it can adversely affect your health. Tenacity pumps fresh blood through the veins of the soul. If you want to be more excited to roll out of bed in the morning, challenge yourself to accomplish something and keep going for it. “Luck is tenacity of purpose.” (Elbert Hubbard)

2. Truth

“Rather than love, than money, than fame… give me truth.” -Henry David Thoreau

An important question to ask yourself: Is your happiness portable? Can you let go of your “things” and still be content; or do you depend on certain accoutrements before you can muster a smile? McCandless was out to prove that the more he could relinquish, the happier he’d be. Every step toward simplicity is a step toward truth. It doesn’t have to mean moving to Alaska, but should you wish for a more truthful life, you might try cleaning out the closet… whether it’s a closet of trinkets, emotions, or grievances. “Simplicity is the nature of great souls.” (Papa Ramadas)

3. Adventure

To always have a such a handle on things is so routine. The unknown in life is what makes it an adventure. “In reality, nothing is more dangerous to the adventurous spirit within a man than a secure future. The very basic core of a man’s living spirit is his passion for adventure. The joy of life comes from our encounters with new experiences, and hence there is no greater joy than to have an endlessly changing horizon, for each day to have a new and different sun.” (McCandless)

31 Comments Report Abuse
1. mirbrewer - Apr 10 04:34am
Yeah Dave! How weird that I am actually in the middle of reading this book right now.
2. leonwu2705 - Apr 13 11:23am
No offence but these are just obvious things. Also, most of us already have a meaning to life. Stength, Truth, Adventure- all of us already do these things and putting them into some stupid article is plain silly.
3. brisguy4547 - Apr 13 11:54am
Well 6 billion people doing that on this earth would be total carnage. But I agree with him on living a little simpler and finding a passion and a cause. Might just read that book.
4. eightpawns - Apr 13 08:08pm
yes i agree
we should all learn to let go of material things more
to change everyday
but the machine of modern life is a scary thing to leave behind
although what McCandless did with his life is beautiful and i could see this 'happening' more often thru the world.....
5. littlecreek85 - Apr 14 04:27am
This should open up the most closed eyes , yes it was a joy to read
6. irelandh17 - Apr 14 11:49am
Excellent David! I have just recently finished reading this book, and yes I while reading it was thinking, "Way to give up all the technology for a while and find some peace", but at the same time he made new friends that perhaps he wouldn't have made in his own life that was so sheltered and planned. I'm not saying a planned life isn't good, but you've gotta cut loose sometimes. Strength is what lets you do that, believing that if you do something wild today your company isn't gonna shut down without you, and that life is more than your job! Challenging onesself to something out of the regular routine of life keeps it interesting. Adventure is the name of the game..Thanks for the reminder here. I know each of us hae an idea as to what makes us tick, but to really dig within and see what can make us tick louder and stronger is the key :-)
7. whirlingwhitewind - Apr 15 12:50pm
I have not read the book or seen the movie (intend to) so can't really comment. However, I do know the ending, and it was sadly predictable. I applaud the ideal but I don't think personanally that a young man throwing his life away because of ignorance, lack of preparation and romanticized ideals of "getting back to nature" should be idealized.That sounds more like a lost soul running away to find himself, and in the end, it should not matter where we are or what we have (or don't have), but whether we can find that quiet stillness inside ourselves.
8. whiteoakmiracle - Apr 16 09:58pm
I will slow down and savor THIS life. I like my "character", Sometimes I get to change the script. Its fun being a character!
9. scottgadke - Apr 17 02:37am
I am another one who chooses to slow down. You see more clearly and can absorb more if your not in a constant rush. I went and saw Wayne Dyer up in San Francisco recently. He also talked of giving everything away.I noticed everyone walking around in SF. They were all trying to get somewhere in a hurry. It didn't look like very many people were happy. You know how they say....A nice place to visit but I wouldn't want to live there......lets just say I won't be visiting very often either. Ha !!! Too many unhappy people running around like an army of ants on a mission. I was in their way !!!! Like a little old lady going to slow, LOL!!! But I could see alot on my visit. I could see and feel the energy of the people and the city and it didn't feel very good.At Wayne's lecture there were about 2000 people and we all joined in a group meditation on Gratitude. In the heart of all that comotion 2000 people meditated on gratitude and there was a peaceful relaxed feeling shared by all who attended. Now I'm ready for the snow to melt so I can go spend some quality time up in the high country. It really doesn't matter where you are though..... What matters is your thoughts and feelings which will have an impact on everything around you. Slow down everyone because THIS life is meant to be enjoyed !!!
10. whiteoakmiracle - Apr 17 09:36am
Hi, TOA. I am Reading THE NEW EARTH by Echard Tolle. Saw Judy Collins in concert. She was challanging the goddess. Recharging my light body with angelic music. LOL
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