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3 Ways to Become a Kid Again

Mar 28 06:18am

“True religion is real living; living with all one's soul, with all one's goodness and righteousness.” -Albert Einstein

I spent yesterday at Disneyland. One word of advice… avoid Disneyland during Spring Break. It felt as if you needed to wait in line to walk around, let alone to ride Space Mountain or Pirates of the Caribbean. There’s something wrong about enduring 65 minutes in line for a 1-minute roller coaster thrill.

Meanwhile, my little 2-year-old cousin had a different gameplan to navigate the chaos. He found a fountain spouting water from a hose in the kids’ play area. He worked up a routine: drink from the fountain, cover the fountain, lick his Mickey Mouse lollipop. And again: drink from the fountain, cover the fountain, lick his Mickey Mouse lollipop. And again... on and on and on for over an hour he sat there totally engaged as if he were riding a roller coaster.

I watched with envy while longing for the days of being a 2 year old with little or no responsibility and an uncanny ability to live fully in the moment. I just sat there remembering what it was like to be a little kid and have your parents take care of everything. Suffice it to say, when you were 2 years old, you didn’t even need to find a bathroom. When it was time to go, you just went right there in your pants.

If only for a moment everyday, we could again become a 2 year old. Not for the convenience of spontaneously releasing your bladder, but rather for the simple pleasures. As the Buddha said, “If we could see the miracle of a single flower clearly, our whole life would change.”

Here are some thoughts on how to restore the simplicity of childhood to your life:

1. Open Up to New Ideas, Energies, Foods, Songs

Pearl Buck said, “You can judge your age by the amount of pain you feel when you come in contact with a new idea.” It’s easy to get caught in routines: listening to the same songs on your ipod, going to the same few restaurants, not making time to experience the exhibit at the local museum. Exposure to a fresh flow of life inspires the soul, ignites the imagination, and enriches the palette. When you come to life with renewed curiosity, you return to the beginner’s mind enjoyed daily by a 2 year old… where everything is all brand new. Thoreau said, “That man is richest whose pleasures are cheapest.” 

2. Create a 2-Year-Old Moment

If you watch a 2-year-old, they move from one activity to another with reckless abandon. But while in the midst of doing something, they are fully doing it. They’re not playing with a toy while checking their BlackBerry. A 2-year-old moment is allowing yourself to do one thing, and do it completely and wholeheartedly. Make it something simple like lie on the grass and look up at tall tree, or fool around on an Etch-a-Sketch. As described in my Disneyland scenario, the adults felt trapped by the crowds and lines, but the 2-year-old escaped into the infinite space of a simple pleasure.

3. Restore Your Sense of Stillness and Silence

To find stillness and silence in the mind and body is to wipe the slate clean, empty the cup, and clear the playing field. From a place of stillness and silence, it’s so much easier to come to new experiences with fresh perspective. It might mean a few deep breaths in the morning or kicking back on the couch for a midday 10-minute catnap. Silence is often the most accessible of the simple pleasures. “Words are a heavy thing... they weigh you down. If birds talked, they couldn't fly.” -Sy Rosen

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1. irelandh17 - Mar 28 10:41am
David...i like you, but especially when I'm with my mom, and my niece and nephews..remember and envy the time that my parents took care of everything. She puts on their coats, buys the best snacks, and lets them frolic freely without a care in the world. however I am truly blessed because when I visit my mom and we go to yoga events, she lets me frolic from class to class and has meals for me after! So I'm kinda in that spot, and its my favorite moments of my life. Others are when I go away to yoga retreats where my favorite yoga instructor is teaching and everything is planned and all I have to do is show up and bask in the BLISS! 2 year old moments are so important everyday, you've got that right. Restoration of silence is also a major key. Fabulous! :-)
2. tammylocklear - Mar 29 06:52am
On your #3 tip, it made so much sense that silence is a simple pleasure. I am a single, hardworking Mother of 2, and they know that, they have to be extra quiet when I take my bath, because I've taught them, that bathtime for me is a pleasurable "quiet" time. Oh, and the thing about, if birds could talk, they couldn't fly, was absolutely true!!! LOL
3. whiteoakmiracle - Mar 30 11:36pm
I recently heard that naptime is the new happy hour!
4. whiteoakmiracle - Apr 03 11:12am
Hi David and Hireland, It occurs to me that children can frolic and be immearsed in simple joys, because some protective, nurturing adult is "holding the space" for them to be care free. As adults we have to provide the safety and organize the logistics and timing, to provide that space for ourselves and/or others.
5. whirlingwhitewind - Apr 05 12:23am
WOM, you are so right! As a single mother, I find it very challenging at times to balance my child's need to be a child with my needs and responsibilities. One of the payoffs when I succeed is being a child myself, letting go of all the care & concern and being in the moment: watching a great movie, playing in the water, building a snowman. One of my favourite memories was snuggling up with my daughter when I tucked her into bed, let go of thinking about the dishes, laundry and so on, and just enjoyed being quiet and cozy with her, and fell asleep.
6. luvcts1 - Apr 07 02:07am
This was okay. I would suggest more of participating in child like activities. When I go to the park, I still like to swing if I can fit my big, butt on the swing plus, have you ever tried skipping again or bouncing a ball around, or hopscotch? It's great to dream and imagine about how life was but I believe it is better to participate.
7. whiteoakmiracle - Apr 07 07:16am
Try taking three kids trout fishing in the mountains! I know next to nothing about fishing and it was anything but tranquil! Still it was a wonderful day and no fish were harmed in this experiment! However a couple of worms were sacrificed to the cause. This is the year we become fishers of FISH!
8. sumit.anand44 - Apr 13 09:36am
Sooo true....
I do believe that 'the world's greatest wisdom is to retain your innocense.'
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