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Joe Hockey's baby dilemma [UPDATED]

Nov 05 12:55pm

- Liberal politician, shadow treasurer and father of a newborn Joe Hockey is used to rivalry in the house.

But, as Joe will attest, the House of Representatives has nothing on the jealousy and rivalry that strikes many households when a new baby arrives. He wrote about it on his twitter page:

"Back to work next week. In the interim I am dealing with sibling resentment about a new baby brother in town...otherwise all is great."

Mr Hockey came on Sunrise today to tell us that he likes nothing more than spending time with his family.

"The two weeks of maternity leave were the best weeks of my life. They really were," he says.

Yet the atmosphere in the Hockey household has changed since those enjoyable weeks.

His two children, especially his eldest, a son, are showing some unusual behaviour toward their new arrival.

>> Read Joe Hockey's status about baby rivalry
>> Read all Joe Hockey's status updates

Psychologist Jo Lamble had these tips for Joe:


"A new baby is a competitor," says Jo Lamble.

The older siblings are likely to think, "he's also not a good playmate - he just sleeps and eats and poops!"

Hockey says that the younger the sibling, the less concerned they appear, at least in his family.

"With Xavier, it's a little more difficult because he's a bit older," says Joe.

"What are you doing about it?" asked Kochie.

"I'm sleeping in Xavier's bedroom. In his Thomas The Tank Engine bed!"

Have you had similar experiences in your family? Help Joe out and leave a comment...

 

6 Comments Report Abuse
1. sonya.shanks - Nov 05 08:03am
I was told a couple of years ago that my sister has hated me ever since I was born because she was the youngest and got all the attention for 7 years and then I came along.... she also punched me in the stomache and winded me when I was 7.... Now thats love isnt it?
2. holgatenina - Nov 05 08:24am
When we brought our second son home a week later our eldest bite him on the arm (only 15 month apart) When we brought our daughter home one of the boys got her out of a secure rocker and dropped her on the floor as i was coming in and they knew i would be angry. Calm first - scream later
3. denicarringtonking@rocketmail.com - Nov 05 08:36am
4 weeks old I had to have an operation and because I was getting all the attention my older sister, a toddler at the time, got really jealous. So she came at me with a pair of sissors and chopped off the top of my thumb just above the joint.
4. tonywasson - Nov 06 03:39am
wow reading the above i come from a family of 8 kids and none of the above happened when a new sister or brother was on the seen we were all in on it so all i can say is involve the older child let them help bath.change.feed.from my expirences all should be ok i did it with my kids and all were fine
5. millhillhome - Nov 09 01:23pm
My daughter (2yrs) was so jealous of my son (8 weeks) she stomped on my son's head as he lay on the floor on a rug, so DO beware!
6. kaarexnm - Nov 10 04:55am
Sibling rivalery is rife and with parents almost prevented from disiplining them there will be some unruly voters comming on stream in the years to come, Joe hokey`s domestic situation will be much like parliament, much squabbeling (little action).
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