The American Psychiatric Association defines exhibitionism as "recurrent intense sexually-arousing fantasies, sexual urges or behaviors involving the exposure of one's genitals to unsuspecting strangers." In some cases, the motivation is to arouse shock, surprise, or even elicit sexual feelings in the observer(s).
In American society there are many more venues for women to expose their bodies, including their genitals to some degree, from skin-revealing casual dresses, to bikini-clad models to the get-ups of exotic dancers and show business personalities. Yet penalties or censure are almost non-existent for such behavior. Not many people consider this behavior sexually deviant or perverted.
A recent example of this double standard regarding genital exposure was the infamous "flashing" incident involving the singer Britney Spears, who was photographed getting out of the back seat of a limousine wearing a very short skirt and no underwear. Although the exposure was brief, nothing was left to the imagination, and it was recorded indelibly for posterity by the many paparazzi in close attendance.
Many commentators noted that this was probably a premeditated act to attract attention to herself, but no one suggested that Spears derived sexual gratification from the activity. And no one suggested that the police or any other authorities be contacted, which would almost certainly have been the case if a man were involved.
It is unlikely that anyone will accuse Spears of harboring a perversion, although shock, surprise, and sexual arousal were all distinctly possible responses for the observers involved. We are then left with a conundrum: Is it true that women in our society are free to expose their bodies with relatively little chance of censure, while for men such behavior is viewed as illegal and an indication of significant sexual deviance? What do you think?
I believethis demonstrates the control men still have over the media. And that is, that although they show pictures of naked or semi-naked women they get away with it by saying, as they look. "See here how terrible this is." And those words make it ok. .Add that to the 'poor defensless woman syndrome.' and voila- women can appear as they want.
Now when the male comes along we pull out the puritan philosophy that has somehow lead us to the believe that something is wrong with the body that God gave us and we must keep it hidden or terrible things will happen because of it.
If we allowed both sexes to dress as they want then we all would eventually become tired of seeing a naked body and oogle no longer.
Start by going to a nude beach. Believe me, after a couple hours you would be able to keep your mind and eyes on your book with no problem.We are, by human nature, always trying to see what we are not supposed to see. It is the love of mystery that keeps up the interest.