Sensory seduction
To help her build a better orgasm, engage her five senses

Hearing
A woman's sexuality is socially influenced: she heats up by discovering what turns on her partner, says Professor Emily Nagoski, a sexuality educator at West Chester University in the UK.
Your move: be vocal. Moan when she hits the right spots during oral sex; gasp when you enter her. These sound effects will cue her feedback loop and rev up her arousal.

Sight
Just like you, she can be turned on by a fleeting glance. "Women tend to respond genitally when they see anything sexual," says Nagoski.
Your move: porn is great if she's game, but catch her when she's in front of the mirror. Kiss the back of her neck and move your hands across her front. You'll heighten her sense of both sight and touch - a sure-fire route to a mind-blowing orgasm.

Smell
The brain regions that control smell, memory and sexual arousal are tightly linked, says Dr Linda Banner, author of Advanced Sexual Techniques (Running Press, $39.95).
Your move: you may have moved on to a new cologne, but spray some of the old stuff over the bed. When she hits the pillow, it'll trigger steamy tension-busting memories of those romps from your early dating days.

Touch
You know the hot zones. But are you doing enough to stimulate the cool ones? "Most men forget about temperature," says Nagoski.
Your move: hold in ice-cube in your hand and as it melts, drip it down her abdomen. To touch off a heat wave, place a piece of candied ginger in your mouth and lick her inner thigh. Bonus: a foot massage can trigger the nerves that connect with her genitals.