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Lookin' to Get Close? First Get Clean ...

May 08 08:38am

It’s the kind of thing you don’t really want to think about -- or talk about. But the fact remains: many people need reminders to keep themselves clean and well groomed -- that is, if you want to be intimate.

“When I know my husband has been at work all day, in and out of the men’s room, the last thing I want to do is visit that area with my mouth,” explains Sophia R. So what does she do when she wants to please her man? She asks him -- gently, nicely -- to shower before coming to bed.

And ladies, the same goes for you. If you’d like a night-time (or mid-day!) visit, you need to be aware of your habits as well. Keeping yourself fresh will not only enhance your sensual experience, it will make you feel quite lovely too!

So next time you're in the mood for a little lovin', take a quick shower, wash away the worries of the day, and enjoy yourself more fully!

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1. senorblues66 - May 08 08:58am

more info. than I needed to know about your husband's smelly crouch

2. catnap321 - May 08 10:06am

Shower or bathe together to get squeaked clean!!

3. metrocard1978 - May 08 10:12am

Geez. I'd thik that would be common sense.. But well perhaps not... Since these days there seems to be no such thing...

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4. metrocard1978 - May 08 10:12am

Geez. I'd thik that would be coomon sense.. But well perhaps not... Since these days there seems to be no such thing...

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5. pleidiandoll - May 08 10:17am

I quite agree with that one, besides it makes for twice the fun if you shower or bathe with the one you love!

6. wonderever - May 08 10:24am

Why is it that women are more conscious of cleanliness than some men who keeps forgeting to wash their hands after doing their deeds

7. gilteeegirl - May 08 10:51am

Billi!?? Do you get paid for these so-called "informative" articles your writing lately? I mean, they are sooooo short and they say nothing at all!! This is just common sense and your not giving us anything here!! This DID NOT EVEN HAVE TO BE SAID!!! LOLOL I think your taking advantage of us here and aren't even doing any research on real topics.

8. mygrace_land - May 08 11:49am

I would think this is common sense, but apparently its not. I cant stand smelling someone funky! Now you have different funkys, too,lol! Some just dont now how to be clean and some just might got a little funky during the day, but their not gross. Actually, someone I knew and he was always very clean, particular with his hands and one time after work, he had camo, and he had been sweating, but he was a good funky,lol. It was actually a different turn on for me. Now for me, personally, I dont wont to mess around if i've been sweating, I will be like, please let me shower first. My ex husband seem to always want to mess with me, when i was outside cutting grass, or yard work, when i was sweaty and felty nasty, he wanted to slip behind the shop and have a little rendevous. I guess it depends, If you are a clean person and you take care of yourself then a little funk might be ok, just dont be NASTY!

9. klmonsour2004 - May 08 01:11pm

#7 GTG, yes she gets paid...for no new info for us...Hello, who doesn't know to take a shower...BOORRRING, AS IS most of the rest of the stuff on here lately. Look at Laura...she has 7 posts in a week...obviously she's not paying attention either..Still can't get a Killer O site out of anyone, maybe I should set up a site, I'd keep you all slurpin, lolol

10. ange1_3y3s - May 08 01:40pm

hummm... a lil commom sense here. Hopefully everyone already knows to shower. Yahoo what are you thinking! Do you just give advice columns to any "yahoo" who thinks they know something. If thats the case... hey I could use some extra cash. Billie put some effort into it and tell us something we DON'T know for a change.